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This is the Revolution of Rest—and It Begins With You.
Welcome to 21DaysAway.Life—your sacred space to pause, breathe, and return to yourself. Created especially for Black women, this digital sanctuary invites you to slow down, reset, and reclaim your time, peace, and joy. Through 21-day challenges, self-care rituals, and restorative products, we’re rewriting the narrative of rest and wellness—on your terms.
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Luxurious self-care made just for you
MEET THE FOUNDER
Toniqua, Creator of 21DaysAway.Life
Toniqua is a multi-passionate entrepreneur, bestselling author, and fierce advocate for radical self-care. Based in Houston, Texas, she is the visionary behind 21DaysAway.Life—a digital sanctuary empowering Black women to reclaim their time, peace, and joy through intentional living.
After experiencing the weight of burnout and constantly operating on 10, Toniqua decided to create what she couldn’t find—a wellness space designed with Black women in mind. Through the 21-Day Challenges, she guides women through transformative journeys of rest, healing, and reconnection.
Toniqua believes self-care is not a luxury—it’s a legacy. With every meditation, journal prompt, and affirmation, she’s creating space for Black women to return to themselves and redefine what it means to be well.
This is her life’s work. This is the revolution of rest. Rest is resistance.
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Nails 'N Cocktails
DIY Press-On Nails & Signature Cocktails
An indulgent wellness night where beauty meets boldness. Create your own press-on nail set inspired by vibrant cocktails while sipping something sweet. Guided steps, premium materials, and playful affirmations help you relax, laugh, and slay your self-care. Whether it’s girls’ night or solo vibes, this is self-expression with a twist.
Book your glow-up:
▸ Book an in-person class (perfect for birthdays, bachelorette parties, or girls’ nights)
▸ Join our virtual experience from anywhere
▸ Or order a kit and treat yourself at home
▸ Group bookings welcome – customize your private event today!
Sip. Slay. Repeat.
Soap 'N Sip
Create Botanical Soaps + Wine & Unwind
Come for the bubbles, stay for the bliss. Handcraft your own artisan soap with natural ingredients and calming aromas—then toast your creativity with your favorite wine. The perfect blend of self-care and soft living.
Choose your flow:
▸ Book an in-person class for a fun night out or special celebration
▸ Join an online class and connect virtually
▸ Or purchase a DIY kit and sip solo
▸ Private and group sessions available
Soak in peace. Lather in luxury.
Sip 'N Scrub
DIY Body Scrubs + Tea & Soulful Vibes
Stir, sip, and scrub your way to serenity. Blend your own nourishing body scrub while steeping in curated teas and restorative vibes. This experience is all about gentle healing and deep reset.
How you unwind is up to you:
▸ Attend a live session in your city
▸ Tune in online and create from your sacred space
▸ Buy the kit and indulge anytime
▸ Book for your group – perfect for wellness retreats, showers, and more!
Stir. Sip. Scrub. Repeat.
REST IS REVOLUTIONARY
Rest is Revolutionary because it disrupts a system that glorifies exhaustion and devalues Black women's wellness. It is a radical refusal to be overworked, overlooked, and undervalued. Rest is not laziness—it's legacy. It's healing. It's power reclaimed.
Toniqua created this term after reaching her breaking point-mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. As a woman who was always "doing," she realized that the real revolution wasn't in doing more, but in doing less with intention. She saw that when
Black women rest, we rise in clarity, creativity, and joy.
So she made it a movement.
A lifestyle.
A new way forward.
Rest is Revolutionary isn't just a phrase-it's a declaration. A call to reclaim time, protect peace, and live unapologetically soft.